A coherent and understandable idea “makes sense.” When I’m trying to “make sense” of something, I think about it. Making sense seems to take place in the mind.
And yet my brain’s constant narration quiets when I focus on my sensory experience — sight, hearing, smell, etc. My senses put me in direct contact with the world around me. From this perspective, making sense happens in the body.
Smell
The scent of a rose might trigger grief or joy. I never know which one.
Portland is also called “The Rose City.” We have an International Rose Test Garden, a Rose Festival with parades, floral floats, and an annual Rose Queen. Roses climb neighborhood telephone poles, bloom in sidewalk strips, and line freeways.
Roses were my Dad’s favorite flower. He taught me to prune roses when I was 9. Whenever he visited in June, we’d walk my neighborhood, crossing streets for whichever rosebush was blooming most extravagantly. We tried to identify the cultivars: Double Delight, Sutter’s Gold, Tropicana. He lik…
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