In her new book, In Defense of Dabbling: The Brilliance of Being a Total Amateur,
has something bigger to say than “get a hobby.”Last week, Karen and I chatted on Substack Live about why she’s so committed to the practice of intentional amateurism, and why it’s so powerful for us parents of adults.
The deceptively simple act of dabbling is about more than just amusing ourselves (although that would be enough!); it’s a portal to self-compassion, a pushback against grind culture, and a way to model curiosity for our kids as they move into their working lives.
You really should hear it straight from Karen. Watch the recording! You’ll smile for 30 minutes. Her energy is infectious and inspiring, and I SWEAR her voice magically releases tension from one’s shoulders.
Share your thoughts or questions for Karen in the comments below.
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🔗 NOTES OF NOTE
Look for In Defense of Dabbling at your favorite bookstore or at Amazon or Bookshop.org (affiliate links). If you’re inclined to purchase, sales this week make a HUGE difference to the book’s distribution and are a great support to the author.
Karen will be in PORTLAND!!! on MONDAY, OCTOBER 6, 6-7pm!!! at Broadway Books!!! Get your signed copy! Event details on the Broadway Books website.
Thanks to all who attended our Substack Live. It’s so fun to see your names pop up there.
I’m taking some time off and will be back in your inbox in late October. But I’ll be with you in the comments and I always love to hear from you. 🩵
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